Love

Exploring my sexuality under censorship

It’s hard to explore your desires when the cultural consequences could be as severe as being cut off from your entire community.

6 mins read

Who are you to qualify my choices?

When I politely explain that I don’t want kids, I often get patronised with the phrase that all childfree women dread: 'you’ll change your mind.'

4 mins read

NO WAY TO BE

NO WAY TO BE is a photo essay exploring the phenomenon of dysmorphic thoughts.

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The true cost of being unwanted

I love my family in the cold, distant way you are obligated to feel about your kin, but I’m not very sure I like them.

4 mins read

The sound of skateboard wheels

I can’t remember life without Matt. He’s embedded in my memory, woven into the fabric of my being.

7 mins read

How to deal with a mate ghosting you

Experts say rejection can register in our nervous system as prominently as if we had physically suffered a physical injury.

4 mins read

A letter to my formerly fat self

You are dressed for a dinner date or party. But the only memory I can focus on is your body, your protruding sides, your big bottom, your chubby face.

5 mins read

Moving towards Transformative Justice

How might the world look different if a human, accused of a breaking a law, is seen differently by the police, the justice system and society at large?

5 mins read

Do ‘Polyamory’ and ‘Non-monogamy’ Mean the Same Thing?

A guide to (mostly) everything you need to understand what the difference is between polyamory and non-monogamy

4 mins read

Treating Heartbreak as a Physical Ailment

Whilst you may not be able to get your ex out of your mind right away, there are things you can do to tend to your more tangible “wounds,” in the meantime.

4 mins read

How to: First Queer Dates

If you are a closeted ‘Queer at heart’, the tummy butterflies on that first date, are worth it. Being a bit of a beginner at sex again, is worth it.

7 mins read

How Much Does Non-Violence Cost?

Is there a necessity to violence when it is defending values we collectively agree upon, or is violence's very nature oppositional to the values themselves?

9 mins read

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