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Polyamory or monogamy?
Monogamy.

Love language
Generosity of heart, drool (people who text 'love you' at the end even when it’s completely out of place).

Biggest turn on outside the bedroom?
Listen to me baby... Melting with how present you are. Goosebump shit.

In three words, describe your ideal sexual experience.
Provocateur, uninhibited, outdoors.

You have a time machine, whose concert are you going to?
I would love to travel back in time to the Rails pub, 2006-ish to see the Kürtis band bring in the light and community feels.

What’s one line you’ve never forgotten about (written, spoken or sung)?
Dreaming of you… thinking of me (love the twist).

Where would I find you at 7PM on a Friday evening?
In a body of water - pool, spa or ocean if it's summer. Definitely with a giggling sorority, attempting to solve the world's problems, accompanied by herbal tea or tequila depending on the moon phase.

If you could smell like one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Star Jasmine on the brink of spring, it's the smell of rebirth to me.

Polyamory or monogamy?
My heart and mind = monogamy.
My body and free spirit = polyamory.

Love language
Words of affirmation and physical touch.

Biggest turn on outside the bedroom?
Luxurious safety, sensuality, humour + confidence.

In three words, describe your ideal sexual experience.
Breath, tongue and being seen.

You have a time machine, whose concert are you going to?
Prince, always.

What’s one line you’ve never forgotten about (written, spoken or sung)?
Sung: "A tough act to follow... you know, a free spirit with a wild heart", from Simple Things, Miguel.
Written: "I want to get to the end of my life & know I've lived the width, not just the length.”

Where would I find you at 7PM on a Friday evening?
Equal parts wellness + fun. Yoga, followed by the latest wellness tech like cryo or oxygen chamber, finished off with margys and a food experience.

If you could smell like one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Wild fig & cassis.

Polyamory or monogamy?
I'm going through a bit of a transient moment in time, so I'm non-committal. Whatever feels good when it comes, I'll roll with.

What's your preferred love language?
Time. Smokiness. Sweetness.

Biggest turn on outside the bedroom?
Effortlessness. Scars. Freckles. Eyes. Longboarders - I love watching the delicate dance - it's like edging.

In three words, describe your ideal sexual experience.
Connected. Rebellious. Classic. "Bare feet on cool grass"

You have a time machine, whose concert are you going to?
Red Hot Chili Peppers. I love the sweatiness, attitude and steez that Anthony Kiedis brings.

What’s one line you’ve never forgotten about (written, spoken or sung)?
"From the earth we come. To the earth we return". This is really real for me RN.

Where would I find you at 7PM on a Friday evening?
Drinking vino/tequila with friends or making a wholesome dinner at home thinking up whack creative projects while sipping wine.

If you could smell like one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
The ocean. It's my heart and soul. No words will ever capture how it makes me feel. I love that I can't explain it.

Polyamory or monogamy?
Both.

What's your preferred love language to give and receive in?
Don't tell me sweet nothings, acts of service are my holy place for both giving and receiving. Closely followed by physical touch. I’ll take it all where it’s freely and thoughtfully given though. I love love.

Biggest turn on outside the bedroom?
Warmth is sexy, even shy warmth. Someone who is sensually aware, smells good.

In three words, describe your ideal sexual experience.
Visceral, sustained, precise.

You have a time machine, whose concert are you going to?
I've thought about it, and I'd rather not go to any if I can only go to one. The fear of using my one wish poorly and picking the wrong concert is too much. But I’m open to suggestions.

What’s one line you’ve never forgotten about (written, spoken or sung)?
"As above so below, as within so without, as the universe so the soul"- Hermes Tresmigistus. Also Drake singing, "Say that you a lesbian, girl me too", lives rent-free in my head, in the worst way.

Where would I find you at 7PM on a Friday evening?
40 out of 52 Fridays of the year you can probably find me in the kitchen preparing a home-cooked meal for a dinner seating of old loves and new loves. There is almost always tequila nearby, the perfect way to elevate giggly dinner intimacy to the dance floor.

If you could smell like one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
A blend of gardenia, incense and fresh linen.

Polyamory or monogamy?
Historically, I'm not the type of person to be juggling my love between more than one person at a time. But, the idea of being under a label that says I have to be, makes me feel slightly claustrophobic. So I would have to say polyamory.

What's your love language to give and receive in?
I have never done the test, but I don't think I need to, it's definitely touch.

Biggest turn on outside the bedroom?
Humans that wear long dresses, humans that love nature and humans that can use Adobe cloud.

In three words, describe your ideal sexual experience.
Entanglement, euphoria and ascension.

You have a time machine, whose concert are you going to?
I would go to a place in the future where there are A.I generated artists that you can custom build to your music preference. Like, imagine If Floating Points, Bon Iver and Cardi B's brain was melded into one robot and made an album. As much as I would love to go see a Beatles concert where you can't even hear them over the sea of screaming people, I find the idea of robots making music much more enticing.

What’s one line you’ve never forgotten about (written, spoken or sung)?
"never born, never died" - Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh

Where would I find you at 7PM on a Friday evening?
Doing something wholesome.

If you could smell like one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
The smell of rain.

Polyamory or monogamy?
As much as polyamory sounds fun, I honestly don't think I have the emotional capacity to facilitate having several relationships. I'd rather just focus on one.

What's your preferred love language to give and receive in?
Time. I love spending time with loved ones followed closely by physical touch.

Biggest turn on outside the bedroom?
Good style ooft.

In three words, describe your ideal sexual experience.
I really don’t have an ideal sexual experience: if we vibe, we vibe.

You have a time machine, whose concert are you going to?
Frank Ocean, he’s not dead or anything, I'm just impatient.

What’s one line you’ve never forgotten about (written, spoken or sung)?
“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the present.” - Master Oogway from Kung Fu Panda. A very wise turtle if you ask me, but I'm not sure if it was him who originally said it. But it's stuck with me, he's a g.

Where would I find you at 7PM on a Friday evening?
If all goes to plan, hopefully at the local.

If you could smell like one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Fresh laundry with fabric softener.

Polyamory or monogamy?
Monogamy because I would be very insecure if someone I was with was having a relationship with someone else.

What's your love language to give and receive in?
Acts of service for giving and receiving, followed by quality time.

Biggest turn on outside the bedroom?
The way a love interest treats the other people around us.

In three words, describe your ideal sexual experience.
Fun, romantic and pleasant.

You have a time machine, whose concert are you going to?
Biggie’s for sure.

What’s one line you’ve never forgotten about (written, spoken or sung)?
"Give and don't expect to receive"

Where would I find you at 7PM on a Friday evening?
You’d find me eating a home-cooked meal with friends (I definitely didn’t cook it though), or in bed.

If you could smell like one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Frangipanis.